I can't say that the last twelve months have been the most enjoyable. For us as a family the year has been dominated by the death of my older brother Barry. Although he died in May a shadow still hangs over us. Barry was the first death in my nuclear family (both my parents are still alive) and the shock still reverberates. Barry's death has led me to ask questions about my own life, the conclusions can sometimes feel mixed.
I can't understand why someone as good as Barry died in such a horrible way whilst others flourish. This is a question I am often asked by others. I used to try and answer them. Since Barry's death I have just nodded in agreement.
I had thought of writing a review of 2009, but I think I will leave it at that. 2009 is not a year I will remember with much affection, unlike every other year since about 1951!
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So sorry about the death of your brother (and the manner of it). It is bound to leave a huge gap and a feeling of unfairness. 2009 had too many funerals in it for me too, but none as close as a brother. Both my brothers died some years ago. However, I found comfort in making new contact with my older brother's family, and I'm looking forward to sharing their joy in a wedding soon. If your brother had family, perhaps they will bring comfort to you too.
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